I think the emotional impact of intimacy is beyond what some, if not many younger persons can easily cope with, and the pain of separation may be less devastating for an older person. There’s no time to start learning responsibility and judgment like the present.
Different people are ready for and want different things at different times in their lives, and then there’s circumstance—I mean going to any of these bases with a trusted long-term boyfriend is a different situation than with a guy you just met at a party.
I went to bases 1 and 2 with my grade 8 boyfriend (age 13), and bases 3 and home run with my grade 10 boyfriend (age 14). On one hand, my best friend gave me a hard time when I was choosing to go far with my boyfriend at 14, and it really hurt my feelings because it was obvious she didn’t trust me. You should make sure that you aren’t judging your friend based on your own tastes and desires.
), telling your mom you kind of met someone but "he's probably a freak or a loser or something," hooking up without both of you having drank for the first time, realizing your cat actually likes him more than she likes you and not having a problem with that.
1935: Regular sex.2013: BDSM, anal, new positions with names like The Congress of The Cow, discussions of threesomes that one of you is invariably more into than the other, tittyfucking, facials, generally speaking, the freakiest stuff you've ever done.
So keep your communication with your friend open, and support her thinking about and talking about the things she wants and does.