Do spend this time obsessing over him and wondering if you ruined this relationship forever.
Be confident in yourself and try to internalize the fact that you deserve an amazing relationship and with the right person it will happen freely and won’t need to be forced. He’s Having Doubts About the Relationship Doubts are normal, especially as a relationship deepens.
If he wants to talk to you about it, he’ll seek you out.
And if he does, make sure you listen to him, don’t use this as an opportunity to voice your opinions on the matter and try to solve it for him.
This creates a vicious cycle of you pushing him, him pulling back, you pushing more, and on and on until he either distances himself from you entirely or the relationship continues with an underlying tension.
You can’t force someone to open up to you, especially when it comes to difficult emotional topics.
The answer is the same as above, just pull back, give him space, and focus on yourself.