There are reasons to have it and reasons not to have it.So I think she’s gonna have a very healthy idea of what sex is, and it’s not gonna be a scary, evil, bad, secret, mysterious thing. And you do it for a job, you take good care of yourself, you’ve managed your money well, and you have clear boundaries about what you will and won’t do.And so her son turns to her and says, “Why do they call you that? Do you worry about what her reaction is going to be when she does find out? I mean, I’m not religious, and we’re not gonna raise her in a religious way, or with the attitude that sex is somehow shameful or bad.
Yeah, in general, boundaries with sex are important, but especially when your job is sex, you need to have them.
It’s a cultural thing that boundaries have fallen all over the place. Like you’ve got reality stars all over the place, musicians, real entertainers.
There will be an age — 13, 14, 15 — where she has more access to the internet, but I think that 13 years from now, with the number of girls who go through the industry, it will be really hard to find me, and to recognize me looking like I do at that point in time. Not that it can’t happen, there are people who just don’t have that filter or whatever it is, but for the most part, we’re mostly rational people dealing with other rational people. You go to New York and everyone in New York knows porn. I would think there would be more recognition in L. I think that a big problem with porn is just the way the model is.
The place that I know I shouldn’t take her is New York City. You have your little seven-year rise, and then you’re just — you’re out.
But Kross has an unconventional background leading up to motherhood — the Sacramento native is one of porn’s biggest stars. Like, that’s literally what stopped us from advancing any further in evolution. The anxiety I went in with was probably worse than the anxiety I’ve had during the pregnancy. Like, I’m not going to want her to dig through certain boxes in the garage.