they didn’t choose the right man to get involved with.
People only fall in love with those they feel secure around.
If you have an agenda and see him as a means to fill a void within yourself, he will feel it and his guard will reflexively go up, making it impossible to develop a real connection.
When you try to win him over, you create an unbalanced dynamic where he is the authority on, and judge of, your worth.
If he responds to you favorably, you believe you’re worthy.
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